Build the perfect interview in minutes. This easy tool helps you create custom, role-specific questions so you can confidently hire the best staff for your child care program.
Step 1: Choose Your Focus Areas
Select as many topics you want to cover in the interview.
Child Safety and Protection
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General Rules to Follow
✅Focus on job-related behaviors, not personal background
❌Avoid asking about personal situations (e.g., living arrangements, parenting experience) unless they directly relate to job qualifications
❌Do not ask hypothetical questions that imply poor behavior is expected ("What would you do if you got angry…")
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Quick thinking and appropriate prioritization of child safety
✅Knowledge of safety protocols and when to involve supervisors/authorities
✅Ability to remain calm under pressure while taking decisive action
✅Understanding of mandatory reporting responsibilities
✅Evidence of putting child welfare above all other considerations
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Downplaying the seriousness of safety issues or injuries
❌Failing to mention involving supervisors, parents, or authorities when appropriate
❌Overconfidence without reference to policy or teamwork (e.g., “I handled it myself”)
❌Vague or evasive answers about responding to concerning behavior
❌Inability to describe mandatory reporting responsibilities clearly
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"Have you ever been alone with children before?"
Why it's off limits: This question is vague and could lead to discussion of personal or informal childcare arrangements, which are not job-related and may open up liability if interpreted as implying preference for certain personal experiences.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time you were responsible for supervising a group of children. How did you ensure their safety?"
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"What would you do if a child made you angry?"
Why it's off limits: It implies that anger is a natural or expected response, and puts the candidate on the defensive.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when a child’s behavior challenged your patience. How did you respond?"
Communitacion & Family Interactions
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General Rules to Follow
✅Focus on how the candidate handles real workplace interactions—not their personal opinions or assumptions about families.
❌Avoid questions that ask about types of families (e.g., single parents, working parents, same-sex couples).
❌Don't ask about candidates’ own family situations or beliefs about parenting.
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Strong communication skills and active listening abilities
✅Cultural sensitivity and respect for family values
✅Professional boundary maintenance while being warm and approachable
✅Conflict resolution skills and diplomacy
✅Evidence of partnership mentality rather than judgmental attitudes
✅Ability to deliver difficult news with empathy and professionalism
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Speaking negatively about parents or expressing judgmental attitudes
❌Indicating a lack of empathy or unwillingness to adapt to family needs
❌Overstepping professional boundaries (e.g., “I told them how to parent…”)
"What do you think about parents who work long hours?"
Why it’s off limits: This invites judgment and assumes a stance on family dynamics not relevant to the role.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when you had to support a child whose family schedule made routines more difficult. How did you navigate that?"
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"How do you feel about single-parent families?"
Why it’s off limits: Irrelevant to job performance and risks introducing bias.
Better Alternative: "Describe a time when you worked with a family facing unique challenges. How did you support both the child and the parent(s)?"
Patience & Emotional Regulation
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General Rules to Follow
✅Focus on specific examples that reveal emotional regulation, not just “I’m patient.”
❌Avoid asking if the candidate “gets angry easily” or “can handle stress.”
❌Don’t frame questions as if frustration is the norm (“What do you do when kids drive you crazy?”).
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Self-awareness of personal stress triggers and coping strategies
✅Evidence of patience and understanding of child development stages
✅Healthy stress-management techniques and emotional regulation
✅Ability to model appropriate emotional responses for children
✅Professional responses rather than personal reactions
✅Understanding that behavior is communication, not personal attacks
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Describing yelling, threats, or punitive behavior as solutions
❌Minimizing children’s emotional needs or labeling them “manipulative”
❌Over-identifying with children emotionally (“It hurt my feelings.”)
❌Inability to describe a strategy for calming themselves or the child
❌Lack of understanding that behavior reflects unmet needs
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"Do you ever lose your temper with kids?"
Why it’s off limits: Too personal and invites defensiveness.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when you felt frustrated at work. How did you handle it?"
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"Are you good at staying calm?"
Why it’s off limits: Vague and leads to self-rating without context.
Better Alternative: "Give me an example of a time when you had to stay calm under pressure while working with children."
Teamwork & Professional Development
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General Rules to Follow
✅Focus on team-based experiences and responses to feedback
❌Avoid asking about personality conflicts or past negative coworkers
❌Don’t frame feedback as punishment—focus on growth and collaboration
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Collaborative mindset and willingness to support team members
✅Openness to feedback and constructive criticism
✅Evidence of continuous learning and professional growth
✅Ability to handle conflict professionally and constructively
✅Understanding of consistency across caregivers
✅Initiative in seeking solutions and improvements
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Speaking negatively about past coworkers or supervisors
❌Inflexibility in team settings or unwillingness to compromise
❌Defensiveness about feedback or lack of growth mindset
❌Blaming others for unresolved conflict
❌Inability to articulate areas for growth or improvement
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"Do you get along with everyone you work with?"
Why it’s off limits: Too general and unlikely to lead to meaningful insight.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when you and a coworker had different ideas about how to do something. What happened?"
Emergency Preparedness & Crisis Management
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General Rules to Follow
✅Ask about direct experiences with emergencies or drills
❌Avoid dramatic hypotheticals (e.g., “What would you do in a school shooting?”)
❌Do not assume candidates have medical training beyond basic first aid
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Knowledge of basic first aid and emergency response procedures
✅Ability to remain calm and think clearly during emergencies
✅Understanding of when to call for help and proper escalation
✅Evidence of following protocols while adapting to unique situations
✅Priority on child safety over property or convenience
✅Clear communication skills during high-stress situations
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Freezing or panicking in emergency situations
❌Ignoring or bypassing protocols
❌Prioritizing convenience or speed over safety
❌Lack of understanding of basic procedures (e.g., calling 911)
❌Vague or unrealistic responses to crisis questions
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"Would you be scared in an emergency?"
Why it’s off limits: Focuses on emotion rather than professionalism.
Better Alternative: "Describe a time when you stayed calm and followed steps during a high-pressure situation."
Developmental Understanding & Learning Support
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General Rules to Follow
✅Ask about specific children or learning moments—not general philosophy.
❌Avoid vague questions like “Do you know child development?”
❌Don’t assume one timeline or use deficit-based language.
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Understanding of age-appropriate expectations and milestones
✅Ability to observe and assess individual needs and strengths
✅Creative problem-solving and adaptability
✅Recognition of when additional support is needed
✅Evidence of individualized attention in groups
✅Collaboration with families for consistent development goals
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Rigid, one-size-fits-all approach to learning
❌Blaming children or families for challenges
❌Lack of familiarity with developmental benchmarks
❌Failure to involve families or professionals when needed
❌Emphasis on discipline over support
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"Do you believe some kids just can’t learn?"
Why it’s off limits: Assumes failure and invites deficit-based thinking.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when a child wasn’t progressing as expected. What did you do?"
Workplace Culture & Values
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General Rules to Follow
✅Ask how the candidate supports inclusion, respect, and positive culture
❌Avoid questions about personal opinions or religious/cultural beliefs
❌Don’t use tokenizing or loaded language about difference
Green Flags - What to Look For
✅Respect for different backgrounds, learning styles, and needs
✅Proactive effort to include others and create a welcoming environment
✅Ability to handle bias or exclusion constructively
✅Awareness of modeling fairness and empathy
✅Alignment with values around respect, professionalism, and care
Red Flags - What to Watch For
❌Dismissing differences as irrelevant or inconvenient
❌Comments suggesting bias or stereotypes
❌Avoidance of responsibility for inclusion
❌Lack of examples showing positive culture contributions
Examples - Questions to Avoid
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"What’s your opinion on [specific cultural or religious practice]?"
Why it’s off limits: Could reveal personal biases and isn’t relevant to the role.
Better Alternative: "Describe how you ensure all children and families feel respected and included."
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"How do you feel about working with children with disabilities?"
Why it’s off limits: Could be perceived as discriminatory.
Better Alternative: "Tell me about a time when you adapted your approach for a child with different needs."
Step 3: Narrow Down Your List
Interview Type
Ideal # of Questions
Notes
Quick Screen (15–20 min)
3–4 questions
Focus on your top priorities or deal-breakers
Standard Interview (30–45 min)
5–6 questions
Covers a range of core competencies
In-Depth Interview (60+ min)
7–10 questions
Ideal for lead teachers, directors, or final-round candidates
Final Interview Question List
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Green & Red Flags to Watch For
Interview Best Practices
Use the STAR method – Ask candidates to describe the Situation, Task, Action, and Result
Listen for specifics – Vague or overly polished answers may indicate lack of hands-on experience
Ask follow-up questions – Especially when something sounds concerning or impressive
Document responses – Take clear notes for later comparison and legal protection
Check references – Always verify experience with previous child care employers